Sunday, October 11, 2009

hoes.

Sidelines...



Do you feel comfortable taking the backburner to another woman? Is it a whorish deed to be
another woman?

I've been in this situation before, with my first boyfriend. I waited for him to leave her, but at the time I was young and naive. But I waited for him, and I knew the hurt that I might have been causing to his girl. Because as soon as I hit the line, he dropped everything for me. But I never considered that
If he cheated with me, HE WOULD CHEAT ON ME.

I'm pretty sure he believes, that I never thought he cheated on me. But I wasn't that stupid. Females have this instinct about them, they know when their man is cheating, at that point it just becomes a matter of choosing battles.

But anyway back to the matter at hand, it's interesting to me how women always want to be the main squeeze in someone's life, but don't mind taking another woman's man.

Me personally, I don't mind being the
other woman. I don't need a man, therefore I don't need to be his number one. But, I'm also not with fuckin` another woman's man. That's just low. I think if you want my body, you should have enough respect to make me your one and only.

So I just wanted to voice that I think it's okay to be friends, and let him treat you. Especially at my age, now it becomes a completely different circumstance when he has a family, or is engaged. I don't want to take a man away from his family or his wife. That's just wrong.

But a girlfriend, c`mon now. These girl
FRIENDS these days have some territorial issues. You don't own him, just like he doesn't own you. And if you choose not to play the game...well that's your folly.

&& I guess that's it.

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